28.1.09

Over the Kitchen Sink...

I find disconnect over my kitchen sink. I spend some time on auto mode doing the dishes. But my attention belongs out on the street, the ladies are out in force. I can watch them, unnoticed, safe, from behind the kitchen sink.

Out on the street I cannot meet their eye. These are the women of the street, in their homes, behind their own kitchen sink, maybe their mascara runs down. But here leaning nonchalantly by the parking meter, they can look a man squarely in the eye, their eyes programmed to detect a tiny gesture, a look, a movement in the passing toyota, lexus, nissan.

Today I am drawn to writing about the view from my kitchen window after taking a peek at the beauty beyond the sink at Taste Memory's.

In the bleached-out afternoon some green distracts me momentarily. The new sprouts and shoots on my sill provide me a degree of fuzzy comfort. The weather is optimistic these days and the hopeless heat is still some months away. Opposite the colourful ladies, on the other side of the street, the gents in blue sit on their haunches under a reluctant ghaf tree. A rickety TATA motors bus will arrive any minute to take them to their camps, until then they entertain themselves by huddling together and cracking bawdy jokes.

My view of the horizon has long been obscured by a building that apparantly no longer serves its purpose. Its reflective exterior so dark that it hides the emptiness inside and fools passersby with their own reflection.

I remember another view from another kitchen - the kitchen window of my childhood home, the sun's rays bursting through the green lattice of the coffee tree, its blossoms taut and white against the green. Stray chicken foraging in the kitchen garden, a crow on a solitary palm frond waiting for the bits and bobs that will surely come his way after the family breakfast. The commotion of the warblers hell bent on talking all at once. The dogs lazily napping in a sunny spot after a hard nights work. And familiar voices approaching the window calling out for this and that.

These are some of my own memories over the kitchen sink. Care to share yours?

And this is the coffee tree I am talking about, she bears fruits every year unfailingly. I took this picture of the tree laden with berries on my recent trip home and it is indeed my click for Click! Red.

23 comments:

Gita's Kitchen said...

Good read Rajani! I too have pleasant memories of the first kitchen I had in Hyderabad. While doing the dishes, I used to watch the vegetable vendors pass by, kids playing, and some ladies stand and chat by and they buy.. here in US my kitchen faces the hall and I watch TV as I cook :(

Roblynn and Rebekah said...

So glad to hear I am not the only one that spaces out the kitchen window. Out our window are the bars of our gate and beyond that the constant stream of vendors as well as neighbors walking hand in hand escorting children to and from school. Since they are on vacation now I see lots of kids on scooters and bikes trying to out run the street dogs that just want a small taste of their ankle :)

Sunshinemom said...

I felt like I was intruding too much - what a beautiful description of your view! My kitchen does that (the latter part) now for me - it is my window to another world. Sometimes a pretty bulbul perches on the grill making me drop everything and jump on the platform for a closer look, and sometimes I just see a lizard outside and jump again to make sure that the window is latched and I am reminded of Nissim Ezekiel's poem:) - both are nature's beauties in their own way and I do try had to appreciate the second one - just haven't succeeded!

bee said...

thanks for your entry, dear rajani.

rekhas kitchen said...

wow beautiful click and nice writeup rajani

Vandya said...

Truly loved it. Wish my kitchen window had such a view too.

notyet100 said...

omg wht a post,..:-) i enjoyed view fom my kitchen window for past 2nd a half yr,..when iw sin Singpore...all i could see wAS greenery in abundance but back here in Delhi thibgs are different,,,theres kitchen window but i can cee nything,..:-(

Yasmeen said...

Beautiful rajani,my view outside as of now is all frozen and piles of snow every where.
The coffee tree is an exotic tree to have in the back yard,nice click.
About your sugar substitute query,Jaggery has almost same calories as sugar,but relatively good source of Iron and calcium,you could use it in place of sugar.Also other sweeteners like Honey or date syrup or maple syrup is also a good option.
Date syrup must be easily available in dubai?

Lalapoo said...

It's nice to space out sometimes.. unfortunately my kitchen windown is not by the sink.. so I get to stare at the wall..

taste memory said...

very lovely reflection + post! thanks so much, u are a dear for the mention + link back. glad to know my kitchen sink/window illustration prompted you to write about yours as well! have fantastic day ahead ;-)

Dragon said...

You have a wonderful talent for words, my friend. :)

sra said...

Lovely post. The view from kitchen window now is more and more concrete but from my previous two kitchen windows, I could see bamboo, some earth, bits of house, a citrus tree, the women in the house going about some post-lunch tasks on a weekday afternoon ...

AnuSriram said...

Thats a wonderful click! Nice story!

Nazarina A said...

You are the most superb protagonist!

I have so many "over the kitchen sink stories" but it makes me sad to recollect them because the person I experienced them with is no longer here!

Vaishali said...

That's a lovely post, Rajani. The view from my kitchen sink here is quite lovely, and changes with the seasons. In the summer I see the neighbors' neatly trimmed lawns and the oak and maple trees, lush and green. In the winter, the trees are bare and the lawns colorless, but the view is still quite calming and peaceful. I do wish I had your view though, which sounds lively and really interesting.
I also wanted to answer your question on Holy Cow! The soymilk-vinegar combination is a substitute for buttermilk which is supposed to make the cake tender. I find the soymilk-vinegar substitute actually works better than the original.
In banana bread, I substitute flax meal, or ground flax seeds, for the eggs. Use 1 tbsp of flax seeds + 3 tbsp water in place of one egg. Flax is packed with Omega-3s, so it's also a very healthy substitute, and it's nutty and delicious as well.
Feel free to write if you have more questions. Look forward to seeing you around!

Cynthia said...

Your writing is so eloquent, so soulfoul... I wanted to read more.

Thanks for visiting my blog and leading me to yours.

Rajani said...

Gita's Kitchen, Roblynn and Rebekah, harini, bee, rekha, Vandya , notyet100, Yasmeen, Lalapoo, taste memory,Dragon, sra, AnuSriram, Nazarina, Vaishali,Cynthia - thank you all for dropping by and sharing you own view over the sink and nice comments about my writing - much appreciated :) - it feels nice to do some writing and actually publish it, without an editor breathing down your neck!

Komal-Nishka said...

How did I miss this :)

Lovely indeed, not that you needed to hear this after all those comments..

I would love a view like that but I grew up in a kitchen facing a small office balcony. At most times we wouldn't see anyone and when we did, it was this lonely soul sitting behind his desk.. :)

VnV said...

Great write up... I will forward your beautiful blog to my cousin. She will empathize with your being a vegetarian in the middle-east, as she is one, and also is trying to raise her kid as one.

the five o'clock teaspoon said...

I loved reading your reflections. Very evocative and atmospheric.

Reeta Skeeter said...

what a pretty picture :) very feminine

Reeta Skeeter said...

what a pretty picture :) very feminine

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